" Because you are special* to me, and I love you, I gladly give up other peoples in exchange for you; They are trivial by comparison to your weighty significance. " _Isaiah 43:4* (The Voice)

Friday, July 4, 2014

✗ Hillsong Conf 2014: "Leading & navigating through seasons of crisis" by Brian Houston ✗


  • Sometimes we believe for the best, but hear the worse
  • People want the things you have, but they don’t want the things it took for you to get there
  • As leaders there is crisis in the church, and then in our own lifes/corporate
  • Leadership is not proven in the good times but in the tough times

    1. Facing crisis, we got to understand that pain has a process which is very important
  • Don’t try to avoid the process of time because it is all part of it
  • If you know what to do in the beginning, it makes it better for the ending

  • 2. It is always good to respond, and not react
  • By nature, we are a reactionary
  • Sometimes in life, we got to understand the importance of it as it is repulsive and you may say things you regret

  • 3. Try to not get defensive
  • Everything of your human nature wants to fight

  • 4. Beware the human tendency to isolate
  • There are times and the worst thing you can do is isolate and turn all things to yourself
  • “A man who seeks his own desire...”
  • Often times the things are our weaknesses (addiction, emotional attachment, crazy)
  • The feeling of wanting not to fellowship, is when you need it the most
  • Hebrews 10
  • Psalm 142 (“The righteous shall surround me...”)
  • Make sure we always get ourselves in an environment of praise

  • 5. Let your human side show
  • Be transparent but not pitiful
  • Sometimes we put all the walls up and think there is nothing wrong
  • Sometimes it is good to be a little bit human -- People warm to you and rally behind you with your life moving on
  • Eliminate blame and excuses -- Whatever any accident happens, it is your fault 
  • It is not helping anything -- Always take accountability and responsibility
  • What could have i done different or need to change?

  • 6. Focus on the good things
  • Leading people and on leading yourself
  • Hang on to those people who get you thinking of ‘whatsoever things are pure’ and not ‘rumour, mean, trashy, digging up the dirty, juicy reports, skeletons, gossip worthy’
  • It is good to focus on the good report, when you are surrounded completely in the bad report

  • 7. Wise as serpent, harmless as doves
  • It does mean when you are leading in a way where you are pure hearted, but not stupid
  • We got to get into the mind of the spirit and wisdom of God

  • 8. Man Up or Woman Up
  • It is time for your character to shine and not your flaws
  • We can easily go quickly to your flaws – personal reactions, facing our own demons, Challenge our reactions not justify them
  • Don’t just allow your reaction to run rampant, and challenge them, confront it
  • We got to make sure we leave plenty of room of our emotional bank
  • You take people upwards, and not downwards
  • Beware of your coping mechanisms – Sometimes you feel rebellious, and sometimes it feels good
  • One thing you can do is not to take it out with the people you are closest to
  • It is so easy when you need them the most, we got to make sure it – it is a coward way and easy to fall back on
  • Don’t cover up but address the issues (Personal and Public)

  • 9. You got to gather trusted confidence
  • The bible talks about the multiple of people, not opinions
  • Make sure people are for you and not against you or to get a personal mile out of this -- who loves you and want the best for you, and tell you what you are afraid and need to hear
  • You need people who are further ahead in life than you
  • You want someone who has face some things and counsel which takes you forward
  • Find people who are not being thrown too easily by your challenges
  • You want people who are wise and have that ability
  • Talk to people who are generous hearted – that means they are for you and want the best for you
  • Find positive people – get a good word, overcoming word, breakthrough word and not sympathetic
  • Every time Jesus moved with compassion, something powerful happens
  • We do not want to be sympathy – “The friend to the whole world is a bad friend...”

  • 10. Bring those around you on the journey
  • Because you are going to need them
  • Be an example who are leaning on you – showing real strength and leadership
  • You can help people around you

  • 11. Resolve on what to do
  • Luke 15:4
  • Take the mediation time, and come to a point of resolve of this is what you are going to do and address so that you have strategy

  • 12. Vision, Vision, Vision
  • Revision and reimaging instead of focusing on the problem
  • When a boat lose wind against the sail, the best thing you can do is reset your sails – talk life, talk hope, put faith into you
  • One ways to get happy is preach yourself happy
  • Tongues – it builds and strengthens us up

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