{ How nice is too nice? }

what is the boundary of being “too nice”? yes we’s are all people of love and grace, and I know it cannot be limited cause it does not ever come from us, but we would need wisdom on when and who to execute it correct?

one has personally seen people of meekness get pushed around for their harmless stature, and yet they still have faith and mercy to that person that they will change (despite the constant true colors of their unremorseful, disrespectful and heartless pride).

yes harsh words, and yet the reality of it is still biting which goes to show that putting your faith in men to change will fail on it’s selfish and cunning form -- the flesh will only be centered on one thing, themselves.

so after numerous times of attempting to heal the cancerous chunk, and yet they even sink deeper with motives to get you down, dry and out (and with this effecting the rest of the body), would not that be a very clear sign of getting it removed completely? purely on the truth to protect one’s very own.

personally, I have figured that how I was brought up was rather different and rare from the others. with parents that will constantly go above and beyond for others, and yet seeing it taken advantage and misworded in countless of vicious manners, one has been disgusted and swears to not be likewise, but it is in your very blood.

the word “no” is never in your mind, heart, soul and body -- it is simply never an option but to truly go those extra miles because that is innate so deeply in your character and upbringing which has left me burnt a number of hurtful times.

even so for my dearest and most valuable love folks, the severity of the burnt scars has never stopped them by for walking His grace and mercy out. they will faithfully be there for anyone with a need despite it’s size and impossibilities. and if those very same people come back with slanderous remarks and stealing what is not theirs, justice and vengeance never arises. ever.

when is it ever enough? when do we stop? when does justice comes in? because when one is in victory, another has to lose. and it is sure not us, because God only gives weight to what is Godly. His judgment is also His love, likewise for His correction. so how does one know?

“Lord, You be our wisdom, our justice, our victor. Show us Your ways and Your heart.”