- Sometimes we believe for the best, but hear the worse
- People want the things you have, but they don’t want the things it took for you to get there
- As leaders there is crisis in the church, and then in our own lifes/corporate
- Leadership is not proven in the good times but in the tough times
- Don’t try to avoid the process of time because it is all part of it
- If you know what to do in the beginning, it makes it better for the ending
- By nature, we are a reactionary
- Sometimes in life, we got to understand the importance of it as it is repulsive and you may say things you regret
- Everything of your human nature wants to fight
- There are times and the worst thing you can do is isolate and turn all things to yourself
- “A man who seeks his own desire...”
- Often times the things are our weaknesses (addiction, emotional attachment, crazy)
- The feeling of wanting not to fellowship, is when you need it the most
- Hebrews 10
- Psalm 142 (“The righteous shall surround me...”)
- Make sure we always get ourselves in an environment of praise
- Be transparent but not pitiful
- Sometimes we put all the walls up and think there is nothing wrong
- Sometimes it is good to be a little bit human -- People warm to you and rally behind you with your life moving on
- Eliminate blame and excuses -- Whatever any accident happens, it is your fault
- It is not helping anything -- Always take accountability and responsibility
- What could have i done different or need to change?
- Leading people and on leading yourself
- Hang on to those people who get you thinking of ‘whatsoever things are pure’ and not ‘rumour, mean, trashy, digging up the dirty, juicy reports, skeletons, gossip worthy’
- It is good to focus on the good report, when you are surrounded completely in the bad report
- It does mean when you are leading in a way where you are pure hearted, but not stupid
- We got to get into the mind of the spirit and wisdom of God
- It is time for your character to shine and not your flaws
- We can easily go quickly to your flaws – personal reactions, facing our own demons, Challenge our reactions not justify them
- Don’t just allow your reaction to run rampant, and challenge them, confront it
- We got to make sure we leave plenty of room of our emotional bank
- You take people upwards, and not downwards
- Beware of your coping mechanisms – Sometimes you feel rebellious, and sometimes it feels good
- One thing you can do is not to take it out with the people you are closest to
- It is so easy when you need them the most, we got to make sure it – it is a coward way and easy to fall back on
- Don’t cover up but address the issues (Personal and Public)
- The bible talks about the multiple of people, not opinions
- Make sure people are for you and not against you or to get a personal mile out of this -- who loves you and want the best for you, and tell you what you are afraid and need to hear
- You need people who are further ahead in life than you
- You want someone who has face some things and counsel which takes you forward
- Find people who are not being thrown too easily by your challenges
- You want people who are wise and have that ability
- Talk to people who are generous hearted – that means they are for you and want the best for you
- Find positive people – get a good word, overcoming word, breakthrough word and not sympathetic
- Every time Jesus moved with compassion, something powerful happens
- We do not want to be sympathy – “The friend to the whole world is a bad friend...”
- Because you are going to need them
- Be an example who are leaning on you – showing real strength and leadership
- You can help people around you
- Luke 15:4
- Take the mediation time, and come to a point of resolve of this is what you are going to do and address so that you have strategy
- Revision and reimaging instead of focusing on the problem
- When a boat lose wind against the sail, the best thing you can do is reset your sails – talk life, talk hope, put faith into you
- One ways to get happy is preach yourself happy
- Tongues – it builds and strengthens us up
2. It is always good to respond, and not react
3. Try to not get defensive
4. Beware the human tendency to isolate
5. Let your human side show
6. Focus on the good things
7. Wise as serpent, harmless as doves
8. Man Up or Woman Up
9. You got to gather trusted confidence
10. Bring those around you on the journey
11. Resolve on what to do
12. Vision, Vision, Vision
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